Where To Get Ready For My Wedding

Here are some suggestions on where to get ready on your wedding day:

Ditch the church basement

First thing is first, just say no to a church basement or nursery. I know it’s convenient when you’re already at the church and do not have to travel, but they’re never pretty. You want a room with lots of natural light and beautiful places to photograph you and your bridesmaids, your details, and your dress. If your church has a room specifically for getting ready that’s updated and beautiful, that’s a different story, of course!

Consider a hotel

Hotels are my absolute favorite recommendation for getting ready. Here’s why:

• Natural Light: Hotels often have large windows and lots of natural light—perfect for those dreamy “getting ready” photos.
• Neutral Aesthetic: Most hotels have simple, clean decor that won’t clash with your wedding colors or steal attention in photos.
• Convenience: A hotel can serve double duty as both your getting-ready space and the place you crash after the reception. It’s also easy for your bridal party, hair and makeup team, and photographer to find and access.
• Room for Everyone: Hotels often have suites with plenty of space for your crew, snacks, and all the little details like your dress, accessories, and gifts.

Pro Tip: Book your hotel room early to make sure you secure one with enough space and good lighting. If possible, request an upgrade to a suite or corner room for extra room and better photo angles.

Find a friend with a good space

Not feeling a hotel or is a hotel too far away? Consider a parent’s house, a relative’s house, a friend’s house, etc. They have lots of beautiful settings, natural light, and we can work with what we have! I find some beautiful outdoor areas to hang your dress or places for portraits after you’re dressed and ready.

Find a friend with a good space

If your wedding venue includes a bridal suite or getting-ready space, that can be an excellent option. Many venues now offer beautifully designed, dedicated rooms for the wedding party to get ready. These spaces are often decorated with weddings in mind and may have special touches like elegant furniture, mirrors, or natural light.

Just make sure the suite has enough space for everyone to comfortably get ready and that the lighting is suitable for both your hair/makeup team and your photographer.

Choosing the right space to get ready can make a huge difference in how you feel on your wedding morning and how your photos turn out. Whether it’s a bright and airy hotel, a family home filled with memories, or a thoughtfully designed bridal suite, pick a space that makes you feel relaxed and beautiful. At the end of the day, you’ll be glowing with happiness—and that’s what matters most.